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Strong & Independent Women Don't Have To Be Single

Strong & Independent Women Don't Have To Be Single

They have no idea that all of those "beliefs" are a huge reason why they're single because those beliefs create certain behaviors. And those behaviors happen on auto-pilot. They don't know they're even doing them.

NO EXCUSES

NO EXCUSES

So, what do YOU value in your life? What are your priorities? I appreciate Oprah for not only leading the way for little girls but for leading by example for me, an adult woman. I appreciate her sharing her life with integrity and authenticity to let us know that we CAN be bosses, have a loving relationship with a man who adores us and we don't have to run around like our hair is on fire. We can do it all with grace and proper planning.

Stop Dating Losers Once and For All

Stop Dating Losers Once and For All

Here’s the other thing. You don’t even know what you’re doing or that you’re doing anything wrong! You are smart! You make your own money. You consider yourself successful. You have lots of accomplishments under your belt. How can you possibly be the one solely responsible for this? I know.  It seems crazy to consider that you’re the one setting the stage for men to play you. But you do. And it’s because of behaviors that you’re doing that you’re unaware are backfiring on you and behaviors in him that you choose to overlook and/or make excuses for.  

Stay In Your Lane

Stay In Your Lane

Terry McMillan said it best... "Past a certain age, casual sex is like recreational heroin. It doesn't stay recreational for long. You can't take a temp job hoping that if you're so great, you really 'wow' your boss on the temp job, you can work it into full time. That is...

Maybe It's You...

Maybe It's You...

Do you ever say, "There's just no good men left out here", "All the good men are married", or "I just only attract married men".  I'm here to tell you that YOU choose every single man in you life.  None of the men in your life forced you to have relationship with them.  They waited and you chose them just as they were and later got mad because he didn't magically turn into a good man.  

When You Ask Yourself Why and Don't Know The Answer

When You Ask Yourself Why and Don't Know The Answer

Have you ever been alone, by yourself, in your car, in the shower, sitting at your desk at work, or in church before the service starts with that burning question in your heart?

WHY?

Why can't I find a good man? Why do I only meet married men? Why can't I break up with Tony? Why do I keep letting him back in after he lies? Why do I keep letting him back in after he cheats? Why do I stay with him and he doesn't take care of me? Why isn't he proposing? Why do other women find good men? They're not even as educated, as attractive, as powerful, as popular, as good of a woman as I am! 

Online Dating But No Dates?

Online Dating But No Dates?

The biggest, single most complaint I get from women in the online dating space is that they spent 6 months on a dating site and “all these creeps kept sending me messages”. They complain that all the men immediately ask for more pictures upon sending her an inbox message and that they quickly want to move the conversation off the safe platform and into personal emails with their real names.