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Strong & Independent Women Don't Have To Be Single

Strong & Independent Women Don't Have To Be Single

They have no idea that all of those "beliefs" are a huge reason why they're single because those beliefs create certain behaviors. And those behaviors happen on auto-pilot. They don't know they're even doing them.

Are You Basic?

Are You Basic?

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More and more I get asked this question.

Linda, what is Basic?  How is a woman “basic”?

So, it’s time that we talk about this. I know it rubs some women the “wrong way” and for many reasons. They land on my website and say, “I’m NOT basic! I have a degree. I own my own home. I have my own business. I have kids in college. I am (insert work title here). I don’t need a man. I’m not going to settle for a man with no degree, not 6 feet tall, divorced, with kids… Blah, blah, blah).

But even though they say all that and all of it is true, they always choose liars, cheaters, abusive men and men that mistreat them…  But WAIT! They have so much chemistry between them, (meaning sexual compatibility).

Yes, basic women have sex without a title. They believe they're in a relationship because they had sex. They take themselves off the market because they've gone on 3 awesome dates with a man, oh also because they had sex with him. They have sexual chemistry with him and he's funny so they begin their journey into making him "the one". This is just the surface of the behaviors good women do that make them basic. These behaviors land them single over and over again. 

If you've read this far then I KNOW, you will LOVE my FREE training series taking this place this month!  Register below to get the video training in an email if you can't meet me live!  Come ready and bring an open mind.  You're going to stop being basic TODAY. 

Stay In Your Lane

Stay In Your Lane

Terry McMillan said it best... "Past a certain age, casual sex is like recreational heroin. It doesn't stay recreational for long. You can't take a temp job hoping that if you're so great, you really 'wow' your boss on the temp job, you can work it into full time. That is...

Maybe It's You...

Maybe It's You...

Do you ever say, "There's just no good men left out here", "All the good men are married", or "I just only attract married men".  I'm here to tell you that YOU choose every single man in you life.  None of the men in your life forced you to have relationship with them.  They waited and you chose them just as they were and later got mad because he didn't magically turn into a good man.  

When You Ask Yourself Why and Don't Know The Answer

When You Ask Yourself Why and Don't Know The Answer

Have you ever been alone, by yourself, in your car, in the shower, sitting at your desk at work, or in church before the service starts with that burning question in your heart?

WHY?

Why can't I find a good man? Why do I only meet married men? Why can't I break up with Tony? Why do I keep letting him back in after he lies? Why do I keep letting him back in after he cheats? Why do I stay with him and he doesn't take care of me? Why isn't he proposing? Why do other women find good men? They're not even as educated, as attractive, as powerful, as popular, as good of a woman as I am!