Lessons From Tyler Perry's Acrimony

Lessons From Tyler Perry's Acrimony

I teach women to pay attention to THE BEHAVIORS THEY ARE DOING that they think are good and are helping them prove to a man how good of woman they are when in fact those behaviors are backfiring and working against them. Those behaviors SCREAM that they don't have boundaries, don't set and enforce any. They are people pleasers and because of that they SETTLE in love and it stems from low self worth regardless of how many degrees she has, how much she money makes, where she lives and what she drives. And it's the reason they can't seem to "attract a good man". 

What I Learned From Doing A TEDx Talk

What I Learned From Doing A TEDx Talk

It was 2009 and I was home, surfing the internet. I had recently discovered Gary Vaynerchuk and I was devouring EVERYTHING of his that I could find. Doing one of my Google searches, I accidentally landed on his TED Talk at Web 2.0.    Gary was already speaking my language but watching him on that stage planted a seed in me.

Strong & Independent Women Don't Have To Be Single

Strong & Independent Women Don't Have To Be Single

They have no idea that all of those "beliefs" are a huge reason why they're single because those beliefs create certain behaviors. And those behaviors happen on auto-pilot. They don't know they're even doing them.

NO EXCUSES

NO EXCUSES

So, what do YOU value in your life? What are your priorities? I appreciate Oprah for not only leading the way for little girls but for leading by example for me, an adult woman. I appreciate her sharing her life with integrity and authenticity to let us know that we CAN be bosses, have a loving relationship with a man who adores us and we don't have to run around like our hair is on fire. We can do it all with grace and proper planning.

Stop Dating Losers Once and For All

Stop Dating Losers Once and For All

Here’s the other thing. You don’t even know what you’re doing or that you’re doing anything wrong! You are smart! You make your own money. You consider yourself successful. You have lots of accomplishments under your belt. How can you possibly be the one solely responsible for this? I know.  It seems crazy to consider that you’re the one setting the stage for men to play you. But you do. And it’s because of behaviors that you’re doing that you’re unaware are backfiring on you and behaviors in him that you choose to overlook and/or make excuses for.  

Cardi B & Offset

Cardi B & Offset

I’m not going to sit here and break down her relationship. What I WILL do is show you the BEHAVIORS that she has or does that make her high value so you can learn some thangs today. Ok?

Are You Basic?

Are You Basic?

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More and more I get asked this question.

Linda, what is Basic?  How is a woman “basic”?

So, it’s time that we talk about this. I know it rubs some women the “wrong way” and for many reasons. They land on my website and say, “I’m NOT basic! I have a degree. I own my own home. I have my own business. I have kids in college. I am (insert work title here). I don’t need a man. I’m not going to settle for a man with no degree, not 6 feet tall, divorced, with kids… Blah, blah, blah).

But even though they say all that and all of it is true, they always choose liars, cheaters, abusive men and men that mistreat them…  But WAIT! They have so much chemistry between them, (meaning sexual compatibility).

Yes, basic women have sex without a title. They believe they're in a relationship because they had sex. They take themselves off the market because they've gone on 3 awesome dates with a man, oh also because they had sex with him. They have sexual chemistry with him and he's funny so they begin their journey into making him "the one". This is just the surface of the behaviors good women do that make them basic. These behaviors land them single over and over again. 

If you've read this far then I KNOW, you will LOVE my FREE training series taking this place this month!  Register below to get the video training in an email if you can't meet me live!  Come ready and bring an open mind.  You're going to stop being basic TODAY.